Sunday, November 9, 2014
Straight Gene, Gay Gene,... and Profanity!
There is no "Straight gene." There is no "Gay gene." "Straight" and "Gay" are not the only possibilities! Sometimes the gene mixture produces an Intersexual person. (If you don't know what that is, study through several articles about it!) Sometimes, the Intersexual person blooms to feel like a woman who wants to fall in love with another woman. Sometimes, parents and doctors get it wrong by assigning the person the wrong gender. Sometimes, people assume the child is straight from the get go! Like a flower, it takes time for the blooming to happen. Sometimes, the mix produces a male child who wants to fall in love with a female and he enjoys painting his face with make up and he enjoys wearing clothing items he finds in a "women's" department. Some "boys" like the color pink and hate sports. Some "girls" wanna play football and wear their hair in a crew cut. Some individuals are aggressive. Some passive. Some are a mixture of passive and aggressive. Sometimes, the mix produces someone who never has interest in sexual intimacy at all. ......................... Yea, it's complex! Complicated!
When a person is behaving in ways that bring harm to other people, then it makes sense to address the behavior and seek to remedy the matter so that everyone wins. But, when a person's behavior is NOT harming others, then leave well enough alone. Forcing a child into a gender mold can be harmful to that person. It's not a win-win scenario! Forcing a child into a sexual orientation can be harmful. It's not a win-win scenario.........!
Just because one is a heterosexual who is married and (presumably) has someone with whom to happily be in love, happily enjoy sexual intimacy among all sorts of interactions by which the two can produce win-win results everyday does NOT qualify his / her prescription of heterosexuality as the just answer to everyone else's happiness. It doesn't privilege him / her with any special right to use God's name in vain. His / Her sloppy handling of the word of truth breathed by the God is profanity and should be treated as such!