I've said this before, and I'll repeat. Others have said it, and I think they should repeat.
Republicans, You will NOT win until you change your attitude (to an affirming attitude) towards Gays (that includes the entire LGBT parts of the population). I'm not saying that you will win easily if you DO change, and it may be awhile to recover from damages you've set in motion. Still, you will NOT win until you change your attitude to an affirming attitude towards Gays.